If you ask, it's not a guarantee that I'll say yes, but it's a start... What I really mean to say is that whenever I'm dancing at a party, club or bar, I'd appreciate it if strange men would stop and think before they latch onto my backside like a parasite. For some reason, this has become an acceptable practice. Some creepers think it's OK because they still continue to do it. Well, it's not OK. People, do you agree?
It not only disrespects the body, it also insults the mind. Creeps just grab women without the slightest effort to talk to them or get to know them. Fellas, if you don't wanna get to know the person, you shouldn't get the right to dance on them. And it's not even dancing at all because we all know awkwardly moving your hips side to side is just awkward turtle. Proper dancing is a whole another idea. But honestly, I don't shrivel up and freeze once a creeper starts grinding up on me. It just irritates me that it happens way too often. When it happens, I move a little bit and maneuver away from that man-child. Yes, you're a man-child to me because you are either a) a drunken buffoon, b) a misogynistic buffoon, c) a cowardly buffoon or d) all of the above. No, I don't want no scrub.
Dancing should be fun. Guys, there's a proper way to dance. And let's be real: if your ultimate goal is to sleep with a girl, there are better ways to approach her. The mind holds the keys to the bedroom. If you want to get to know a lady, give her respect. There are a few ways:
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This is an excerpt of a post originally written for BU Culture Shock.
